Rules of Civility and Decent Behavior

January 2005

  • Associate yourself with persons of good character. It is better to be alone than in bad company.
  • Think before you speak.
  • Accept corrections thankfully.
  • Be not obstinate in supporting your own opinion.
  • Do not repeat news if you know not the truth thereof.
  • Speak not evil of the absent.
  • Do not reprove or correct another in anger.
  • Do not curse or revile anyone.
  • Let your conversation be without malice or envy.
  • Yield the place in front of the fire to the latest comer.
  • Jog not the desk on which another reads or writes.
  • Speak not injurious words either in jest or in earnest. Scoff at none although they give occasion.
  • In disputes, give liberty to each one to present his opinion.
  • Be attentive when others speak.
  • Always submit your judgments to others with modesty.
  • Do not undertake to teach your equal in an art in which he is qualified.
  • A man should not preen himself about his achievements, his wit, his virtue, and much less about his wealth.
  • When a man does the best he can, yet succeeds not, do not blame him.
  • Do not express joy before one who is sick or in pain.
  • If anyone comes to speak to you while you are sitting, stand up, even though you may consider him to be your inferior.
  • Show a good example, particularly before the less experienced.
  • Do not give advice unless you are asked.
  • Be not curious to know the affairs of others.

--George Washington