Rules of Civility and Decent Behavior
January 2005
- Associate yourself with persons of good character. It is better to be alone than in bad company.
- Think before you speak.
- Accept corrections thankfully.
- Be not obstinate in supporting your own opinion.
- Do not repeat news if you know not the truth thereof.
- Speak not evil of the absent.
- Do not reprove or correct another in anger.
- Do not curse or revile anyone.
- Let your conversation be without malice or envy.
- Yield the place in front of the fire to the latest comer.
- Jog not the desk on which another reads or writes.
- Speak not injurious words either in jest or in earnest. Scoff at none although they give occasion.
- In disputes, give liberty to each one to present his opinion.
- Be attentive when others speak.
- Always submit your judgments to others with modesty.
- Do not undertake to teach your equal in an art in which he is qualified.
- A man should not preen himself about his achievements, his wit, his virtue, and much less about his wealth.
- When a man does the best he can, yet succeeds not, do not blame him.
- Do not express joy before one who is sick or in pain.
- If anyone comes to speak to you while you are sitting, stand up, even though you may consider him to be your inferior.
- Show a good example, particularly before the less experienced.
- Do not give advice unless you are asked.
- Be not curious to know the affairs of others.
--George Washington
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